we talked about what we wanted as parents. we defined what 'socially awkward' and 'socialized' meant for each of us. we talked about where we want to be financially, emotionally, physically when we make the choice to become parents. we talked about the terrible decisions that can be inherent to parenting and the decision to have children.
he played his game and I cried. they were the happiest of tears.
i feel like such a grown-up that might need to play in some mud. i am glad for that talk and i welcome the future conversations that go with it.
i am comforted to know i have an ally.
i have a partner. a best friend. he is my lover, my equal, and my greatest joy.
